I think every summer I come to the same conclusion: I need more dresses. And more sandals. I just ordered these which are like the quintessential white-girl-in-Chicago sandals but, whatever.
Dresses, though, are tougher for me. I ordered this one that I mentioned in my June Shopping Summary and I actually think I’ll wear it on Friday this week. Friday is my company’s summer party on the rooftop deck of our building and it’s supposed to be ridiculously hot. And then later that evening I’m planning to meet Emily for dinner. Since I bought the dress to wear out and about when it’s hot I think it’s the perfect time to break it out of the closet.
In the mean time, here’s one of the other dresses I own that gets a workout in the summer.
Dress – c/o eShakti (same) | Sandals – c/o Shopbop (same in other colors, similar) | Necklace – gift (same in different color)
I think part of my issue stems from feeling like my dresses need to have different silhouettes. Like, how many fit-and-flare dresses can one have? Honestly, this is a silly thing to think. If that’s the style you like and feel comfortable in than that’s what you should buy! I tried a trapeze dress recently and Jason just shook his head. Apparently it wasn’t flattering.
I also own some sheath dresses but those are sometimes too formal or constricting or too clingy for my mood.
Okay, okay, it might not be so cool today but, hey, I wore this outfit a while back when it was one of our cooler days. However, you will never hear me complain about how hot it is! I’ve grown to love the heat. Maybe it has something to do with not running as long of distances in the summer? I don’t know.
Or maybe it’s just that I’m not cool enough for my neighborhood anymore! Seriously, you guys. When I moved to Chicago’s West Loop the street about half a mile north of me was known as “Restaurant Row” but now it seems that the entire neighborhood is getting trendier by the minute! A new restaurant opens up every week it seems. We have two new boutique hotels going up. So many new condos and apartments that are already out of my price range. It’s crazy.
Oh, and McDonald’s is moving their headquarters to a few blocks from me. Not to mention Google has their building across the street from where we board Chewie.
Sometimes I feel bad for not taking advantage of all these new places but, hey, I’m not making “new” money so I guess I’ll just have to continue to be warm and not cool.
Salazar is currently traveling through Europe and she got to see this painting in person at the Mauritshuis in The Hague.
This painting is striking because of its simplicity. I’m interested to see how everyone chooses to interpret it. Don’t forget to send your pictures to firstname.lastname@example.org by Sunday, July 24th so she can post her round-up on Monday before she leaves for her trip to Iceland!
I think some of my favorite comments I get from you guys are when you tell me I inspired you to try something. Whether it’s a new restaurant, a new pattern, a new silhouette, or a new store, I love it all. So today I’m hoping I can inspire you try something else: giving back to your community. Yeah, yeah, I know, what does this have to do with my blog? Well, as you guys probably know, I like to volunteer. I’ve done dog shelters and food banks and races. And, yes, I donate money to causes, too. I’ve done all sorts of volunteering over the years so I though it would be fun to share with you some tips and tricks I’ve learned.
Such as don’t forget the bug spray if you’re going to be standing in the woods directing runners.
But, if you want, here are my tips for giving back to your community.
1. Choose something you can do even if none of your friends are interested in doing it with you. While it’s usually more fun to do things with friends, sometimes it can be difficult to get a group together. Don’t let doing something on your own hold you back!
Besides, if you’re doing something like volunteering at a water station at a race you’ll find you’re never really alone.
2. Remember that it’s not all glitz and glamour. Sure, walking puppies is fun, but animal shelters also need people to wash dog dishes, fold clean blankets, and organize all the food and toy donations. Food depositories need people to look at expiration dates and check for mold. Remember that even if you’re not out there on the front lines you’re still giving back.
The layers I wore to the dog shelter this winter. Because you never know what you’ll be doing.
One of the best times I had was at a food depository sorting and stacking bread into crates while checking for mold. It was like a giant game of Tetris!
3. If you can’t give time, give money. While, yes, many organizations need volunteer hours they also need funds. Right now I’m not really in a spot to volunteer at all the dog shelters, but I can donate my money. Buy tickets to fundraisers and party it up while giving back!
And speaking of money, remember that $2 million donation that Jewelers Mutual is making? Well, you can help decide how that record-making donation gets dispersed. Just go to their Band Together page to vote for your charity of choice: St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Habitat for Humanity, and Feeding America or Food Banks Canada. The charity that gets the most votes by the end of July will get $1 million! Second place gets $700,000 and third place gets $300,00.
In addition, each time you vote you will be entered for a chance to win weekly jewelry prizes from STACKED New York. Each week, one voter will receive a set of 3 stacking bands ($450 retail value). Plus you can vote daily to increase your chances of winning! So, let’s band together and give back to the community at large!
Do you volunteer? What’s been your favorite experience?
I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.
First up we have Jen, who is in the process of moving! She had put together a capsule wardrobe and it’s awesome that she was able to create such a fun outfit out of the pieces she hadn’t packed yet.
Next up we have our other SIA co-host, Salazar, She’s traveling and managed to get a photo in front of the sea! Since the official name of this week’s art is “My Sea, My Sister, My Tears” the ocean photo is quite appropriate.
This week’s art also seems to inspired plaid! Chris went for blue on blue and, as his photographer stated, also has steely blue eyes to match. I’ll say!
Kezzie says that she was a bit disorganized this week but I think she was subconsciously prompted to put this outfit together since it works perfectly for this week’s art!
Leslie snuck some selfies of her and her husband in their complementary blue outfits. Don’t they look like they’re having fun?
A few weeks ago I had a gift card to redeem at lululemon but it was only redeemable at one in the suburbs. So, we decided to make it a date night and head over to Oak Brook mall so I could shop and we could eat dinner.
Dress – Le Tote (same) | Necklace – Le Tote (same at Le Tote, same for sale) | Shoes – Loeffler Randall c/o Shopbop (similar)
The blues, the patterns, and the fact that my necklace is a bead work so well, right?
Also, I want to take a moment to talk about lululemon sports bras. This was the first time I’d ever actually tried anything on in that store and the sports bras were so….tiny! I don’t even have that big of a chest and yet I felt like I was going to accidentally flash myself in the dressing room. Their stuff looks so cute on other people but I’m not sure how I feel about it. Any of you have thoughts?
It’s that time again to talk about what I want to accomplish this month. Actually, I’m pretty impressed that I’ve been keeping this up since February! Setting goals is weird for me in that I tend to get intimidated and not set them. But, small ones seem to be working.
Run a mile in under 7 minutes. – Oh, you guys. I got SO CLOSE. So, so close. I did a free timed run at a local park but because it was free we had to defer to some construction equipment that blocked the path for a few seconds. My official time was 7:06 but my watch said 6:55 (it auto-paused during the path blockage). HOWEVER, my watch also measured the course at .96 instead of 1 mile. So, I KNOW I can do a sub-7:00 minute mile in the right conditions. Either way, I’m pretty sure 7:06 is a personal record.
Have weekly date nights with my husband. – We decided that Thursdays were going to be our nights to turn off the tv after one episode of something and play a game or do something else. We stuck to it pretty well. We didn’t do anything too spectacular, but we did have a game night with friends one week and last week when I had to run an errand in the ‘burbs we took the opportunity to go out to dinner and then get ice cream in our old neighborhood (Brown Cow forever!) And one Thursday night we even accomplished goal #3! Which was…
Go to Mario’s Italian Lemonade. – We took Chewie and walked over to Mario’s one night after dinner. I admit, I wasn’t that impressed but maybe it’s because it wasn’t super hot outside. I hope to try again when they have peach because I’m told that’s the best flavor to get.
Drink at least 64 ounces of water a day. – I downloaded the iPhone app “Waterlogged” and started tracking how much water I drink a day. I discovered pretty quickly that I was already drinking almost a gallon of water every day….and that didn’t include any coffee, tea, or sports drinks. Well okay then! So, this goal ended up being super easy to accomplish. However, I noticed I drink less during the weekends so I need to get better about that.
Go on either one bike ride or one swim with Live Grit. – Well, I technically did a swim with them since I did the Esprit de She triathlon and there were a lot of other Live Grit people there. And I did do the first part of my ride to Joliet with them, too. So, I’d say mission accomplished here as well.
I also finished Pretty Girls (definitely recommended if you like mysteries and don’t mind some disturbing stuff) and plan to start In the Unlikely Event by Judy Blume since I got invited to a book club for it at the end of the month.
Once again it’s time to fess up about how I did with shopping and sticking to my only buying things with gift cards and store credit plan.
And you know what? I did it! The jeans were purchased with my Shopbop credit and the dress and shoes were bought with a gift card I got from doing surveys.
Actually, the shoes I bought were pink and on super clearance which is why I don’t have a picture of the exact pair.
The jeans were like the fourth pair I’ve ordered and I actually had to buy these in two sizes to try. I really, really dislike buying jeans. But these were the best I’ve tried on so far even though the waist still gaps a bit and, weirdly, the button is on the opposite side from all my pants. I suppose, though, that will be a nice workout for my brain!
The dress was kind of an impulse purchase when it was 95 degrees outside and I wanted something I could wear out to dinner. Funnily enough, I personally wouldn’t consider this dress work appropriate but I actually saw a girl in my office wearing it in the olive color with a denim jacket over it. I think I’ll stick to wearing it outside of work, though.
Well, here we are at the end of another month. I’ve been doing my best to take advantage of the summer which is why it’s been kind of quiet off and on around here. Also, I’m about to start a pretty busy period at work but I’m hopeful that due to a few changes it won’t be AS crazy as the last time. As the person in charge of new employee training it helps when they start a bunch of new hires on the same day as opposed to staggered starts!
Anyway, what have I been up to so far this summer? Well, in the month of June I:
I’ve never been one to have long, thick flowing locks of hair. I’ve never even been a wash-and-go kind of gal. In fact, I’ve struggled for years with what I’ve been told is a lot of thin hair that alternates between straight and curly. Plus, I have this feeling that the older I get the thinner and more unruly it will be. Hair thinning is not uncommon. Up to 42% of women will notice some hair loss in her lifetime. (Source: 2014 Gallup). Which is why I was happy to get the chance to interview celebrity stylist and Women’s ROGAINE® Brand Ambassador, Jill Crosby so I could understand how to tackle this issue as soon as possible.
[Me]: How can you tell if your hair is thinning or going to thin? Is it something you can tell by looking at your parents’ hair?
[Jill]: The average amount of hair loss in a day is anywhere from 50 to 100 hairs a day. More than that is considered above average and could mean thinning hair. Your parents hair loss can be a telling sign, especially for hereditary hair loss– but not always. Keeping track of our loss is important and identifying the type of loss you are experiencing and working with professionals to develop a treatment plan you begin early is key.
I don’t know, you guys. Maybe I should have started as early as possible?
My current beauty routine involves using a cleansing conditioner on my hair in the shower each morning and then adding a curl cream and an oil before blow drying it with a diffuser. I alternate between wanting to chop off all my hair and just letting it grow out.
[Me]: Which is better for thinning hair: keeping it long and wearing it up or cutting it short? What difference does it make if you have curly hair?
[Jill]: Every women has different styling needs because each woman has not only different amounts of thinning, but different textures and qualities to their own hair. Some may look better short while others longer, work with stylist to help determine what will look right for you.
Okay, but what about color? As you may recall, I’ve dyed my hair red in the past. I also had what I refer to as the “blond incident” in college. Not a huge fan of blonde on myself.
[Me]: If you do have thin hair, which colors are better? I’ve heard that highlights can help hide thin hair but as a brunette I don’t want to necessarily have to become a blonde!
[Jill]: I have had my journey with thinning hair. I am a blonde and yes, you have heard correct that color can hide the issue of thinning hair, but no …you don’t need to be a blonde to do this. The point of using color as a camouflage is to stay in close range of your skin tone and your natural color palette. For example, if you are very light skin and you have thinning hair and you choose to color your hair very dark there will be a huge contrast and typically you’ll be able to see the light pass right through your hair, straight to the scalp. Keeping away from extreme contrast is the point.
Yeah, that might have been too many highlights….
So, even though I’m only 36 it’s pretty clear that I’ve struggled with my hair my whole life. Among women who experience hair thinning, 76% of women start to notice after the age of 30. (Source: 2014 Gallup) What, if anything, can I do now?
[Me]: What, if any, lifestyle changes can women make to arrest hair loss?
[Jill]: Take an inventory of what is working and not working in your life, do the best you can to change the obvious contributors which could be contributing to the deterioration to your wellbeing. From there, some of it may have nothing to do with what you are doing and could be a result of heredity—hereditary hair loss is real and it can be passed down from your mother or father’s side of the family. If this is the case, starting a treatment program with Women’s ROGAINE® foam as soon as possible will be the best course of action you can take.
Thanks, jill! I’ll keep that in mind. In fact, adding Women’s ROGAINE® to my nighttime routine might be something I start in the near future since for best results, Rogaine should be used at the first sign of thinning or hair loss (vs. last resort), as part of a proactive anti-aging regimen. It’s simple since you don’t have to do anything other than squirt some on your scalp and let it dry and it’s compatible with hair color and other styling products. I can totally add it before I wash my face and brush my teeth and read play Criminal Case in bed.
What about you? Do you think you’ll struggle with thinning hair? Are you already? Do you think you’d ever try Women’s ROGAINE®? If you do, you can find a coupon here. Why not try it? What do you have to lose? Hopefully less hair!
I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.